Lola’s Wisdom: Life Lessons After 50
I can still see it clearly — Lola in her wooden rocking chair on the shaded porch, her soft floral dress swaying gently as she fanned herself. Her glasses sat low on her nose, and every so often she’d pause mid-story, as if to let her words sink into us. As children, we thought her stories were just to pass the time. We didn’t realize then that they were heirlooms in disguise. Now that I’m in my 50s, I find myself returning to those afternoons. Her rocking chair wasn’t just a seat; it was a classroom. And in its gentle rhythm, I discovered life lessons that guide me even today. 1. Presence Matters More Than Perfection Lola never rushed. She never tried to impress. She was simply there — steady, warm, and attentive. Looking back, I realize that what mattered wasn’t how perfect her words were, but how present she made us feel. At 50 and flourishing, I’ve learned that presence is the real gift we can offer — to ourselves, to our families, and to our communities. We don’t have to pr...
